In my opinion family > career.
I'd work less if I could (wife keeps reducing her hours). Political sensibilities keeps me helping the common man rather than making bog bucks
My eldest daughter go's to school with kids who know their grandparents more than their parents.they love in bigger and nicer houses than me and mine, but, they got no parenting, no toys and less fun.
With kids ive have up my djing (jazz/funk) and mcing....bit iam trying to teach the kids the joys of rhyme!