Heyy,, so I emailed sactown just to make sure he doing good and what not, and this was his response!
I feel horrible about being gone so long from the PUTS boards. The people on there are like family 'cause they're all hella positive and supportive of eveyrthing people have to talk about. The longer the time goes on, the worse I feel about it. I WANNA COME BACK!
But basically, the amount of work that I have to during work hours blew up in my face, and now I'm strugglin' to keep it all in hand. And then on the home/nighttime/weekend front, I'm still blasting through my thesis, I'm ALMOST done unpacking everything, and there's a ton of fix-it work around the house. Then, when all that calms down, I've still gotta bust out the regular chores, balance the finances, and I've just started working out too 'cause the gut was getting a little too noticable. My wife is in a musical and just started her full-time job again, so she's out of the house a lot; I barely ever see her, and I'm handling all her stuff too (so I guess I'm a housewife now?).
Give me just a few more weeks. I don't want to miss anything (I probably have already)...
I'll be back.
If you want to throw a quick post up on the boards to let people know where I'm at, you can just copy and paste the stuff up above. I don't mind 
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